Monday, December 20, 2010

Happy Holidays!

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We will be taking a short break from our ‘Image of the Day’ entries.  They will resume shortly after the New Year.  

We wish our all our friends, family and viewers a wonderful holiday season filled with blessings, love and much happiness!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

A Room Filled with Love

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This week I’m pulling photos from old blog entries, this photograph was taken in 2008 at Nicole and Adam wedding at The Landmark’ in Tacoma.  They had their ceremony in Gothic Ballroom followed by a reception in the Grand Ballroom.
If you are interested in booking a photographer for your wedding, you can reach Family Affair Photography by e-mail:  info@familyaffairphotography or by phone:  253-970-5689. 

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

A Portrait of Love

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This week I’ll be digging through some old blog entries for our ‘Image of the Day’ series.  The reason for doing this is because we just updated our computers (new) and have no photos on here yet!  I guess that means I’ll have to get the external hard drive out in the next few days.
Ernie and Joycelyn had a small ceremony at Thornwood Castle in 2007.

Monday, December 13, 2010

Eat, Drink & Be Married!

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This past weekend we photographed the wedding of Amber & Andrew at the Grand Holiday Ballroom in Olympia.  The wedding took place in the upper ballroom, followed by a cocktail hour in the lower level while the staff prepared for the dinner in the upper (main) ballroom.  The festivities continued after the dinner in the downstairs ballroom with music, dancing and cake.  A full preview of the wedding will be coming soon.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Julie, Steve and baby makes 3!

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We originally met Julie and Steve in 2008 when they hired us to photograph their wedding at the Landmark Convention Center in Tacoma.  It was fun to catch up with them again and their new addition, a charming and beautiful daughter.
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She wanted the camera to herself! Look at that full smile.  How can you resist that?!
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                                    Oh yeah, she's CUTE and she knows it!
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The dalhia's were still in bloom when we met at Point Defiance Park in October.  So much color!
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It was great to see Julie & Steve again and more importantly it was wonderful to see they are still very much in love and have started their own family.  

Friday, December 10, 2010

The Dance

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Since a majority of our black and white photographs featured this week have been more of a portraiture style, I decided to make this last photo in the series a fun photojournalistic photo taken during the reception.  It's always a joy to watch and photograph the couples after a wedding, the weddings remind them of their own marriages and it shows when they get on the dance floor afterwards.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

In The Arms of Love

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Continuing with our black and white series, we have Krista and Dylan who had their wedding and reception at Genesis Farm and Gardens in Enumclaw.  They had a lot of fun and the day was filled with the sounds of laughter.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Life is Good with You!

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Michelle & Allen planned on having their August wedding at the Rose Garden in Point Defiance Park.  However, we had rain that day and the wedding was moved to the reception site which was at the Pagoda also in Point Defiance Park.  Nothing was going to ruin this beautiful day!

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Really Married!

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This week we will be featuring classical black and white wedding photographs.   Kara & Rob were married at Meeker Mansion in Puyallup.  I always love when the couples forget about us and get caught up in each other.   What beautiful happy smiles!

To book Family Affair Photography for your wedding give us a call at 253-970-5689 or e-mail us at

Monday, December 6, 2010

One in Marriage

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Lighting of the unity candle.  Justin and Jenna had a beautiful wedding ceremony at a church in Puyallup followed with a reception at the Pioneer Pavilion in downtown Puyallup.

Friday, December 3, 2010

First Glance

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This was taken immediately upon their first view of each other on their wedding day.  Such joy and excitement!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

A Walk of Love

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Kimberly & James took the 'walk of love' through a labyrinth at a lavender farm on Whidbey Island .

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

The Line-up

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Often times we will start with a standard group pose then once that is out of the way, we can have some fun in front of the camera!   Sonny was taking the photo and I went off to the side while they were focused on him.  Katie & Andrew had their wedding and reception at the Aerie Ballroom in Centralia.

We are always happy to talk to you about your wedding day photography needs and how we can best serve you.  E-mail us at or call us at 253-970-5689.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

The Getaway

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Liz and Chris were married at the Four Chaplains Memorial Chapel on Joint Base Lewis McCord.  Here they are making their getaway and will later meet everyone at their reception which was located in the north end of Tacoma.

Monday, November 29, 2010

Celebrating Love

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Miranda & Jered look to family and friends during a humorous moment in the ceremony.  They had their wedding and reception at Cedar Springs in Port Orchard, WA.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

What should I consider when selecting a wedding photographer?

** This is an entry I submitted to the Puget Sound Wedding Professionals group blog and thought I'd go ahead and share it here on my own blog too.  If you have any questions about wedding photography never hesitate to ask us!

First you want to determine the style of photography you want.   However, with that said you want to keep in mind that some photo editing applications, tricks, etc might be the ‘it’ thing right now.  But, will those editing styles still be desirable in 2 or even 20 years?  Over the past two years alone I have seen several editing trends come and go.  A well composed photograph, one that tells the story of the day and expresses the emotion of the day is something that will last throughout the years. 

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It’s often said you get what you pay for.  This is when it’s a good idea to arrange to meet the photographer so you can see if they have a history of producing a quality level of work that you would want for your own wedding.  

As a wedding photographer, I can tell you that wedding photography can be one of the most challenging yet exciting forms of photography.

Don’t be afraid to ask how much experience they have?   Have they photographed a few weddings, a few hundred weddings?  Is this their business or a hobby? 

Do they have experience at your venue or a similar venue, especially if it’s a low light venue or a venue with it’s own set of challenges such as bright sun (windows or outdoors), or any other lighting situation, each can present their own little challenges.  An experienced photographer is going to be ready for any situation!

One thing we have noticed lately are people with little experience who are trying to take your focus off the actual photograph by over-editing and adding a lot of creative add-ons.   While there are a lot of fun and interesting techniques that can be done to the photographs will they still be desirable in 2 to 5 or even 20 years from now?  Look past the fun edits,  and make sure the images are good from the beginning.

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Many professional photographers who take their craft seriously are members of various professional photographer associations such as:
PPA - Professional Photographers Association
WPPI - Wedding & Portrait Photographers International
WPJA - Wedding Photojournalistic Association

Also what I feel is the most important credential is a happy customer!  So, don’t be afraid to ask for references from past customers and check for online reviews.

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Personality counts!  I’ve had family members of our customers tell us stories of past photographers that they dealt with and obviously didn’t recommend them for the wedding we were photographing.  We would hear about these photographers who were invasive, pushy, very demanding who had family or even the bride in tears on their wedding day.   You want a photographer you can spend the day with, who isn’t going to add stress to your day.  They don’t need to be your BFF but, you certainly want someone you are at ease with and who can work easily with all the personalities at your wedding. 

The Photographer:
If you are working with a studio that has multiple photographers make sure you meet with the photographer who would be photographing your wedding face to face before signing any contract.   Also, ask if this is their work you are viewing or a collective gallery of work.  Many larger studios will send whoever is available, this happens more often than you can imagine!

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Money Matters:
There are several things to consider when looking at the photographer’s packages and pricing structures.  Do you understand what your getting?  Is there room for changes and what will the changes cost?  How much time will the photographer be at your wedding?  What happens if you need more time?

~ How many photographers will be covering the event?
There are still several photographers who prefer to work alone and others who work as a team of two - usually husband/wife teams.  There are advantages and disadvantages to each.  Most importantly though it’s a matter of personal preference of the bride and groom.  If the photographer is used to shooting alone, it’s often awkward when they are required to bring in a second shooter.  They need to be on the same page and work smoothly together.  Photographers who work in pairs have that established pattern, they know each others moves and communicate well together.

It’s also important to consider your venue and wedding size when determining if you want one photographer or two.  It wouldn’t make sense to have two photographers photographing a wedding at a small chapel with 20 guests. 

~ How many hours of coverage will be provided?
Coverage means what time they start to the ending time.  If you require your photographer to start at 10 am to photograph the bride getting her hair and make up done and the reception ends at 10 pm, that would be 12 hours of coverage.  If your photographer is committed to their job they will have little to no down time during those 12 hours.   When they aren’t photographing the bride and groom, they will be shooting details, guests and family. 

~ How many photographs will they be taking?
This isn’t much of an issue with digital cameras.  I’ve heard of some photographers who shoot about a 1000 images per hour!  Personally, I call this the “Mad Clicker”.  
If they are taking this many shots they obviously  aren’t putting a lot of thought into composition.

~  Do they edit the photos?  
This is often a big part of the cost of photographing a wedding.  For every hour of event coverage the photographer who cares about their art is going to take 6-10 hours editing the photographs from that one hour of coverage.  For example an 8 hour wedding can take anywhere from 48 hours to 80 hours to edit.  Or another way to calculate how much time they spend is about 2-5 minute PER IMAGE.

~ How many photographs will they edit? 
Some photographers will only edit and give you 50 to 200 images from the entire event.  Others will select X amount of photographs to edit per hour of coverage.  And finally you have others who will edit all photos that have turned out.  These are all things to consider when looking at their package pricing and to be sure to get what is offered in writing in a contract.

There are also photographers who offer a “Shoot & Burn” package.  Meaning they come and shoot the wedding and provide you a DVD of the images unedited in RAW form.  This can be an issue if you don’t have the proper editing programs! 

Will you receive proof prints or will the proofs be in a gallery for viewing?
This is a personal choice.  Proofs are meant to serve as a way to allow you to view your images and choose which ones you would like turned into professional prints.

~ Are professional quality prints provided?
It’s hard to determine what size and how many prints you want before your wedding.   Many photographers are now offering a print credit with their packages.  It’s not only important to know the value of the print credit but, to see their print prices prior to signing.   Photographer ‘A’ might give you a $100.00 credit and you can only buy 2 8x10’s with that credit.  While that same $100.00 with Photographer ‘B’ will fill a wall!

Get it in Writing:         
Once you’ve selected the photographer you want to cover your big day, be sure to get a contract in writing that states exactly what you’re getting and when you’re getting the final product.  A professional should be providing one without asking.

Read through it before signing.  Is it clear?  Fair?   Everything spelled out?  Make sure you have no doubts before signing!  If changes are made on the contract, be sure to show the amendments and initial them with the photographer.  Example, if you ask not to have your images on display on their website.  Make sure it’s written on the contract.

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Final Thought:
Keep in mind when planning your budget that your photographs are going to be one of the few physical reminders of your wedding and I find as years pass the photographs increase in sentimental value.  No two photographers will photograph your wedding the same, like a painting, photography is a work of art. 

If you are looking for additional wedding planning information be sure to check out the 'Bridal 4-1-1' blog hosted by the Puget Sound Wedding Professionals Network group.

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Giving Thanks

Thanksgiving has always been one of my favorite holidays.  Not so much for the feast that many families have, though I can't deny I enjoy a good meal!  It's meant getting the family all together, shared conversations, catching up with those you love.  I suppose some say Christmas is good for that and to a degree that is true.  Except at Christmas I feel a bit of pressure to buy gifts for everyone and sometimes finding that right gift can be difficult.  Especially when you get someone like myself - I have what I want when it comes to physical/material items.

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Those who know my lack of desire to cook, might be surprised that Thanksgiving is a favorite time and I actually enjoy cooking a nice family dinner for this special occasion.   However if I must be honest, I can't really say that I enjoy all the dishes afterwards!  Wait, I can give thanks for the dishwasher and for family members who help clean up! 

While this year has provided it's own challenges it's also provided me with many reasons to be thankful and grateful.  Here is a brief personal list of things that I'm thankful/grateful for this year.

~     My husband and business partner, he has allowed me to pursue what I love.  And not once did he discourage me from starting the business then dragging him around with me!  I think he actually enjoyed this himself, even if it wasn't something he would have visualized for himself before I came into his life.

~     My three children who have led healthy productive lives and fill my life with love. laughter and even a bit of frustration that just reminds me life is a learning process that we must sometimes learn on our own.

~    My precious granddaughters who will test their daddy just the way he has tested me in the past!  For their hugs, smiles and laughter.

~     I'm thankful for my parents who owned their own businesses.   It was because of this I went forward with creating my own business with NO FEAR.  Maybe I should have  had some fear and worries but, I just knew deep in my heart this was right!  I miss them terribly and I feel they would be very proud of what I have accomplished and of the wonderful man (my husband) who supports me through this journey.

~     Lastly, I am thankful for all the wonderful customers we've been blessed to photograph,  to be a part of such an important day in their lives, to welcome a new baby into their families, to document their lives as they unfold.  We have met some truly wonderful and inspirational people with this business.

We wish you, your family and friends a very 'Happy Thanksgiving'.  Enjoy the holiday with those you love, laugh with them, embrace the moment and remember to give thanks for having love in your life!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Blue Eyes

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Doesn't he have the most beautiful blue eyes?  I must admit, he had me captivated.  Young girls better watch out when he's older!  Not only for this little guy, his older brother is just as good looking.

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

The Kiss

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First kiss as husband and wife.  Lauren and Robert were married at the Holy Cross Catholic Church on the north end of Tacoma.  We were originally told no photography during the ceremony, after talking to the father he agreed to let us shoot but, he could stop the service and tell us to leave f we disrupted the service.  After the service he said he thought we decided not to take any photos as he wasn't aware we were still there. =) We love hearing that!  The couple should be the focus of the day.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Daddy's Girls

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This was taken during my recent trip to DC to visit my son and his family.  This is my oldest son with my two precious granddaughters who are 'Daddy's girls'  and yes, they have him wrapped around their pinkies!  (I don't think he even tries to deny it).

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Sarah & Ben ~ Alderbrook Resort Wedding

Sarah & Ben were recently married at Alderbrook Resort in Union, WA.  The wedding took place outside overlooking Hood Canal followed by dinner on the resorts dinner cruise boat, 'Lady Alderbrook' and then they moved to the resort for party. 
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       Sarah's 'something blue' was having the bridesmaids and flower girl sign the bottom of her shoes.
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Considering they had their wedding in late October, they were blessed with decent weather for an outdoor wedding.
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                  It was beautiful on the canal and we were all treated to a wonderful sunset.
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Thank you Ben & Sarah for allowing us to be a part of your very special day, we had a lot of fun. 
The details:                                                                                             
The Venue:   Alderbrook Lodge & Resort, Union  WA 
Catering & Cake:  Alderbrook Lodge  
DJ:  Shelton High School, Leadership program  
FloristLynch Creek Floral  
Photographers:  Sonny, Monica & Cristina